Couple at their baby shower at Flora

5 Tips for Planning a Gender Neutral Baby Shower

Gone are the days of gender-specific pink and blue baby showers; many modern families-to-be are embracing a more neutral approach when it comes to baby showers. The purpose of a gender-neutral shower varies for most parents. Some parents want to keep the gender of their baby a surprise, while others may not want to force traditional gender identity on their children. Regardless of your reasoning for throwing a gender-neutral shower, pulling one off is a piece of cake with the right preparation. 

Fortunately, there’s barely any difference between hosting a traditional baby shower and a gender-neutral shower. The logistics are similar, but choosing the appropriate theme makes all the difference. Gender-neutral showers can be held in both traditional baby shower venues and virtual settings to accommodate the parents’ needs. We’ve collected our five favorite tips to help you plan a stunning gender-neutral baby shower in San Diego. 

Choose the right baby shower venue

Finding a baby shower venue in San Diego that will work with your needs is a crucial part of planning a gender-neutral baby shower. Throwing a shower at someone’s home is ideal for those on a more conservative budget. However, this option usually requires supplying food, setting up decorations, and cleaning up after the event. Finding an event venue or hiring a professional event planner can alleviate all of these stresses and elevate your event. 

Flora is a sleek and versatile San Diego event venue with amenities such as a premier sound system, projectors, security, catering services, and a site manager to help make sure your shower goes off without a hitch. The right venue can make all the difference, and our team is here to provide you with a memorable experience for you and your guests. 

Pick the perfect theme 

Although choosing a gender-neutral baby shower theme seems daunting, it offers an opportunity to be creative and use out-of-the-box ideas. A “What Will It Bee?” themed party with honeycombs and bumblebees galore has become a staple gender-neutral baby shower theme. Other options to consider include a nautical theme, jungle theme, or even a space theme. 

If you prefer a more subtle theme, focus on getting creative with the color palette and decor. Rather than a traditional pink and blue-themed shower, incorporate the entire rainbow into your decor and invitations or go with understated neutrals. 

Be clear in your invitations 

An important step to throwing a successful shower is sending out invites about one or two months in advance of the celebration. Baby shower invites should include the guest-of-honor’s name, venue address, time, date, a link to the registry, and RSVP contact information. Making it clear on your invitations that you’re hosting a gender-neutral baby shower will give your guests a good sense of what they can expect from the celebration.

Gender-neutral baby invitations also offer you a fun opportunity to experiment with design. Use tropical botanicals, rainbow colors, animal cartoons, or a design that’s in line with your overall theme to prepare your guests for a fun and vibrant event. 

There are tons of invitation templates online, and you can usually get them printed for about $1-$3 each. If you choose to go the digital route, you can send out evites through websites like Smilebox, Evite, or Greenvelope for free. Regardless of the delivery method you choose, make sure you give your guests enough time to plan, RSVP, and get a gift before the shower. 

Register for gender-neutral gifts

One of the most difficult snags gender-neutral baby shower hosts run into is making sure guests bring unisex gifts. The best way to resolve this is by registering for gifts every baby needs, such as:

  • Bottles
  • Diaper genies
  • Baby björns
  • Diaper bags
  • Tummy time mats
  • Clothes in colors like yellow, green, grey, and purple or patterns such as ducks, cacti, or clouds 

Choose edible party favors

Party favors are a nice way of saying thank you to your guests for coming and celebrating the new parents-to-be. When selecting gender-neutral party favors, there are plenty of creative options. For example, a jar of artisan honey with honeycomb-shaped soap is perfect for bumblebee-themed showers. Try to choose favors that are consistent with your overall theme. 

If you’ve opted to go themeless, you can’t go wrong with edible favors because who doesn’t love sweet treats? Candy, cookies, popcorn, and cake pops are always a hit with most guests. Don’t put too much pressure on the favors. You can also check with your baby shower venue to see if they have any catering options for favors as well. 

Host Your Gender-Neutral Baby Shower with Us

Ready to plan your gender-neutral baby shower? Flora is the best event space in San Diego for all of your milestone celebrations, and we’re here to help make your event come to life. Contact us today to inquire about booking your baby shower venue today!

Ariel Min Photography @arielminphoto